Creative strategy: Memento Mori

“Then God said: Let us make human beings in our image, after our likeness… Then the Lord God formed the man out of the dust of the ground and blew into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.”

–Genesis 1:26 and 2:7

I’m a nerdy Catholic. I read ancient texts and obsess about the proper way to clean and iron altar linens. I like Latin a lot. And I spend a whole lot of time thinking about theology, ontology, and eschatology. That means when I think about creativity, God comes into it a lot. In fact, I don’t think it’s possible to separate Him from it at all.

From the very first chapter of the very first book of the Bible, we are given a strong message about who we are and who God created us to be. We are made in the image of God, after His likeness. And what is God doing, in these first pages of His Word to us? He is creating. In fact, the very, very first words of the book of Genesis are these: “In the beginning, God created…” 

If we are to take these words of God seriously, then creativity is not an elective course that certain individuals can choose on their path to heaven. We have been made to be God’s sub-creators, and it is part of our very being.

There’s a phrase you’ll hear a lot–maybe you’ve even said it: “I’m just not a creative type.” One might as well say, “I’m just not a saintly type.” There are as many ways of being creative as there are ways of being a saint, because both are vocations God is calling each and every human in the history of the world to fulfill. No two saints are alike. No two artists are alike. Your task is to find the way God is asking you to live these two vocations–or, more accurately, these two facets of the universal vocation to beatitude.

Until recent centuries, the survival of the human race literally depended upon the fact that every able-bodied person made things. Our ancestors couldn’t make a Target run to pick up new socks and protein bars. They spun wool and knit fabric and cured meat. They curdled milk to make cheese and churned cream to make butter. They thatched the roofs over the houses they built. Perhaps one of the greatest dangers of the ease and comfort of technology is that it has made us forget that we are capable of doing just the same creative work as our ancestors. We’re humans. We were made for this. 

On Ash Wednesday, we Catholics (and many other Christian denominations) hear over and over the words, “Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.” Our bodies, formed by God out of the earth, will return to that earth, and none of us will know the day or the hour. 

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This should add an urgency to our daily work. Sooner or later, death comes, and we will stand before our Maker and Judge, called to account for our lives. He will not ask us how many great things we did or how many dollars we donated to the missions from our surplus. Christ, as we are so often told by the saints, is not interested in our success but in our faithfulness. How did we use the time and talents God gave us? Were we faithful to the work He set before us, or did we allow distractions to drive us off course? Did we strive to work with passion and love, or were we idle and lukewarm?

There’s a Latin phrase the early church fathers used to keep this idea before them at all times: Memento mori. Remember your death. If you feel stuck in your creativity…remember your death. You’ve only got this one chance. When I keep that in mind, it’s actually easier for me to make my life the work of art it is meant to be. I can turn to Christ and place myself in His hands, clay (earth!) in the hands of a potter. 

You are a child of God, made in His image.

You can create, because you were made to create.

You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Work of Art: A Nice Cuppa (and a free recipe & printable for you!)

Tea is my hobby. Drinking it, blending it, growing the herbs for tisanes. Naming blends, packaging them up for my friends. Lots and lots of testing the mixes. And then drinking another cup to relax when I’m done.

I do sell or barter a few bags each year to friends, but never for more than enough to recoup the cost of materials. When your work is creative and intensely so, like writing, it’s important to have a creative hobby that’s just for fun. It’s especially nice when you get to enjoy the fruits of your creativity after only waiting as long as it takes for the kettle to boil.

Much research has been conducted on the nutritional benefits of tea and tisanes (tea is specifically a drink made from the Camellia sinensis plant, whereas a tisane is what we commonly call an herbal tea), both for our physical and mental health. You can Google it, if you’d like–my testimony here is entirely personal.

To me, making tea equals making time.

When I brew a cup of tea and sit down to drink it, I’m acknowledging that it’s okay to slow down, even for just a moment–to be instead of to do.

It’s far too easy to get so caught up in my to-do list and calendar and plans that I forget to take care of myself. Often, the most important act of self-care is simply to take a moment to breathe, pray, and remember that I’m a child of God. I can rest in Him.

Self-care may seem like a luxury, but as a wise mom friend once told me, “You can’t fill glasses from an empty pitcher.” Personally, I like to fill my pitcher with some nice tea.

I’ve been surprised to find that certain herbs and blends have a dramatic effect on my mood and energy. The science behind it is easy to find, but it still feels like a little miracle every time I sit down to a cup of tea and stand up feeling less stressed, more energized, and ready to fight the battles of the day or the hour.

There are so many companies blending wonderful teas that you hardly need to look for them. I highly recommend Harney & Sons for “real” and decaffeinated teas as well as herbal and fruit blends (and you can save $5 off your first order by using this referral link: HTTP://RWRD.IO/41V9WF4). For the moms among you, Pink Stork (you can click HERE to find their tea on Amazon) is a great company that makes wonderful herbal blends to support fertility, pregnancy, lactation, and recovery. Try your farmers’ market for local tea blenders, many of whom use locally sourced ingredients.

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These days, however, my favorite tea isn’t one you can find in any marketplace. It’s my own blend, dedicated to an amazing woman who suffered from anxiety much of her life, Saint Thérèse of Lisieux. It’s full of herbs proven to battle stress and anxiety, has a pleasant lemon taste, and a few “little flowers” mixed in for good measure. And it can turn my feelings of overwhelm right on their heads.

Here’s the recipe in case you’d like to try it! It will make approximately one 8oz jar of St. Thérèse Tea for Stressful Days. You can even print the label below if you’d like to give this as a gift to a friend who needs some extra calm in their life right now. Or just to make your own jar look pretty.

St. Thérèse Tea for Stressful Days

Mix all ingredients in a medium sized bowl, then fill a jam jar to store! Use about 1/2 to 1 tablespoon per large cup of tea.

If you click on each ingredient in the recipe, I’ve linked to products I’ve used (or at least, from herbal suppliers I’ve used–I grow, or source from friends, my own lemon balm, chamomile, and lavender) through Amazon. If you order through these links, I’ll receive a small commission from each sale. Many of these plants are easy to grow or forage in the U.S., so do look them up and have a look around your yard before you buy!

If you’d like to use your creativity to play around with this recipe a bit, you may even have some other ingredients in your own backyard that you could harvest, dry, and add to this blend. Violets, rose petals, nettle, and red raspberry leaves are excellent additions (I’ve tried them all, and they taste great–start by adding about 1/2 tablespoon of each herb per recipe, then adjust to taste).

What’s your favorite tea or tisane? What should I find for my next cup of self-care?